We’re excited to kick off the first installment of our new pleasure column. In the blog posts that follow every Monday, we’ll provide a cliff note version of everything you need to know to make the woman (or women) in your life extremely happy and satisfied. Think of these mini-posts as your Lover-in-a-Box Kit on a count of five. 

Starting off with the question that have plagued the greatest philosophers to have ever lived. “Why don’t men know what women want? Is it really that hard to figure it out?” Well no. If you ask women what they want…especially in bed, we’ll tell you exactly what we need. Here goes five things every woman wants from you-

1) Attuned Giving

Let your focus and direction be leavened by awareness and attunement. Initiate and direct not by dominating and going where you want, but by paying attention to her signals and taking her where she wants to go. Give her exactly what she wants when she wants it by using your attention and presence in service to her pleasure. (Ultimately, her complete surrender to opening is exactly where you want to go, too!)

2) Your presence 

If you don’t show up, who’s that guy having sex with her? Your presence in the moment with her will bring more magic to your time together. 

3) Clean, clear intentions and integrity 

Don’t degrade yourself or her by manipulating or lying to her. Know what you want and speak your truth to her. If all you want is hot sex with no commitment, that’s okay- tell her. That might be what she wants, too!!

4) Reliability and direction

Women are just like the moon. Similar to lunar energy, women are shifting and have several phases. They need a “solar” partner with reliable, powerful masculine energy that doesn’t blow away with the wind. Instead, she wants someone that can be counted on to provide clear focus and attention. You’re her solid centre; she dances around it. Bring it on!

5) Your fiery hot studly masculine energy

Be that demon lover, guys, but only when she’s really ready and basically begging for it. You’ll know when it happens 😉

Do you have any words of advice you’d like to add? Or questions you’d like us to answer in future columns? Please let us know in the comments. xo

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P.S.

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