Reflections At 27!!

I am 27 years old today. 

 And, I am happy. 

 I say this so plainly because, well… it takes time. 

My late teens were intense- moving to Canada directly out of high school was extreme. The newness of everything was massive on me. I missed home. My family. My friends. I cried. A great deal. 

When I reflect on my early 20s, I see a girl who persistently presumed she wasn’t enough. I didn’t fit in. But, at the same time I didn’t want to stand out or be different — I wanted to feel part of a group. Any group. 

In retrospect, what I had been looking for was some type of validation. I wanted somebody else to notice me and tell me that I was good enough. I searched for approval and acknowledgment outwardly. Not knowing then, that everything that I ever needed to be happy was already within me. 

 I can’t pinpoint one specific moment when I realized things within me needed to change. All I needed to do was believe in myself just enough to know that I will be fine. I was terrified of being alone. Ironically, spending time alone is how I rediscovered my happiness. 

You need to know that you are enough.  An actual existence mantra that stayed with me from my past encounters; currently is engraved at the forefront of my thoughts. Being 10 pounds lighter won’t make you any happier or dressing a specific way won’t make you any cooler. Neither will investing in a relationship that drains you. 

You are complete with or without a partner. You are enough just as you are.

So, for my birthday, here’s what I would like as a gift: I need you to put resources into yourself. I want you to challenge yourself. I want you to stop gossiping. Seek connections that inspire you, to buy someone coffee just because, try something new that scares you. To be kind to yourself. Saying I love you to somebody who needs to hear it…and then to tell yourself right back. I want you to find your happiness. 

I did. It’s never felt so good. 

P.S.

 I am enough. So are you.

xx

Yachna Atthi

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8 thoughts on “Reflections At 27!!

  1. Loved this post ♥️ definitely needed to be reminded about being more gentle and loving with myself.

  2. Your blogs are so feel-good. I have re read this post a few times. You speak your heart out in a beautiful way. Can’t wait for more posts.

  3. This is so beautiful. I can relate to your past experiences. I was in a very similar state. But, with age comes wisdom. I am glad you are in a better position in your life now. Being young can be fun and restless. But, the wisdom that comes with growing older is priceless. I look forward to your blog posts. Cheers to that! 🙂

    1. I agree a lot. I thought I would dislike being older. But, that has not been the case at all. I am enjoying the decisiveness that’s coming with it. Thank you so much for the comment.

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